Get The Conversation Started

Use these questions and prompts to kickstart thought experiments and conversations about oral sex!

Talking about sexuality openly takes practice. It can feel awkward at first to talk about topics that have been silenced and shamed most of our lives. Allow the awkward and go at your own pace.

Take care around any tender edges that come up! We all have unspoken assumptions, and implicit beliefs that can feel surprising to say out loud for the first time, or even confess to ourselves!

With care and compassion, candid conversation creates space for way more authenticity, trust and intimacy.

Share in the comments any thoughts or feelings coming up for you as we open up the conversation about oral sex!